One of my favorite aspects of psychotherapy is helping people uncover parts of themselves they did not know existed and feel more connected to their true selves. Often times this involves taking a look at what their own wants/desires are, separate from the heteronormative blueprint we are all given at birth. Sex, sexuality, and gender are topics that are simultaneously invisible in society and infused into everything. That being said, even for people who don’t come to therapy with a “sex issue”, I find it important to make sure not to overlook how